10 November 2011

Judgmental People

I am not a hater. I am usually unassuming but there are people who really get into my nerves by being judgmental, opinionated, control-freaks and jumping to conclusion.

They are everywhere in this place. Sometimes, I cannot help but feel a peeved and upset. I know I shouldn't be affected by these kinds of people but seeing them everyday makes a big difference, in a negative manner.

They said, people who are judgmental are usually losers who have their own insecurities. I am beginning to believe that. I see them everyday and how they treat people is a manifestation of their deviation.

The world will be a better place if these people can keep their opinions to themselves. There are things that is acceptable to say but to quickly pass on a judgment without knowing the real person or the real deal is outright bad.

How do they actually sleep at night aside from closing their eyes? Gosh, get a life judgmental people! We only live once so try to be happy and focus that judgmental energy to something kinder and positive. Humbags!


  1. Yep, Ria, tricky, tricky. I wish people would take the time to explore the whole story without saying something crass. Words hurt far more than anything else. Even if they learned how to be tactful? I think the world needs opinions and opinionated people, but we need to learn how to communicate it better, without force. My two cents anyway:-)

  2. Hello Cari! Thanks for the input. Believe me, I tried my level best to avoid them or just to ignore their presence but when they are in there right in your face, it's just difficult, say, work area... Sigh. How I wish I'm just a stay-at-home mom so I don't have to deal with those people. They make me sad :(

  3. My thoughts exactly! People who get a certain kind of high from judging others are insecure. They should instead look inward and clean up their act. Oh yes, the workplace is replete with people like that. They just hate it when you're better than them, don't they? :)


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