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21 January 2013

No Room For Hypocrites

One thing that really ticks me are hypocrites. I know I cannot change the world and wish that everyone is just as transparent as I am. That's not how the world works. Every now and then in our lives, we come across people we thought are good people, trust-worthy and who we can even consider as friends. However, these so-called friends are just not who we thought them to be.

This year, I vowed to myself that I will not have any room for two-faced people in my life. Well at least not in my close circle. I just hate it when people lead me to believe they're real and I welcomed them in my close-knit friends, only to find out, it's a one way street. I think it's not even a one-way street. It's a cul-de-sac!

I'm wary on trusting people now especially the ones where they seem to be extra nice but deep inside, they have already betrayed you. I want my 2013 to be right. I don't need people who only know me when they need something. I don't want people in my life who only call me when they need a favor. I certainly don't want to acknowledge people who say good things about me but can't look me straight in the eye without fidgeting and glancing to the right and actually mean what they say.

I'm done with all of the hypocrites around me.  I'm better off without the "Tupperwares!" I have my real friends and they may just be few in numbers but their strength in good character when combined is enough to topple even the strongest hypocrites around.

Good bye and good riddance plastics! This 2013 is my "good vibes" year and I have no room for all of you. You can just stay at my back. That's the only place you will be - BEHIND ME!

17 comments :

  1. Good riddance indeed. I have been in that situation sis so I know how you feel!

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  2. I do feel where you are coming from Ria, last year was very tough for me as well as I felt betrayed, I too cleared myself away from these stresses, we don't deserve them, we deserve much happiness in life :)

    wishing you very well.

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  3. I can relate to this post Sis Ria. I have my own share of experiences dealing and trusting people whom I taught I have genuine friendships but just like you, I have been betrayed several times.

    That is why I am very cautious when it comes to welcoming people in my circle. I am much better off with only few but honest friends than to have people who pretends to be "friends".

    Let us learn from our experience na lang and be very careful with trusting people.

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  4. I agree with you sis. That's why i am really picky in choosing those whom I give my trust. There are really lots of "plastic" people out there. Happy Good Vibes! :)

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  5. I learned to categorized friends to. Being away from home and friends I think helps me sort out true friends from not. I have learned that trimmed those that are there for me through thick and thin.

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  6. I felt betrayed before, so I cleaned all my FB's friend to moved on and forget all those kinds of people that I don't needed. I don't care if I have few friend who could trust and never betray me. Let's enjoy life sis, ;)

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  7. hypocrites are people who simply want to see the world burn... they do have their crazy thoughts, all we could do is not care about em...

    cheers to life! :)

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  8. Yehey, welcome to the group. Me, hate those 'plastic' people, they will surely lead you to no where.

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  9. very well said sis...:) you, we don't need people like that in our life...don't deserved an ounce of our attention. i love the last paragraph. enjoy each day and sooner or later they will know they lost a gem. xx

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  10. Thanks everyone. It's a lesson learned in life. It's just unfortunate that they are everywhere.

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  11. And yes, Cheers to good life, loving families and great and TRUE friends! Kampai! :)

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  12. I have to agree with your posting here, a few true good friends are better than all the wanters !!

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  13. A good start for 2013 Sis!

    Personally I am choosy with the people I hang out with. I prefer to keep few but true friends. Also, I always draw a line between colleagues and real friends.

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  14. love this post, nobody could have said this better..

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  15. that's reasonable tips for everyone, I learned so much, I need it for my daily life always be yourself

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  16. That is the reason why I am so picky when it comes to friends. Hypocrites really exist and I for one don't want to mingle with them.

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  17. There are things that people may say that can tick us off and sometimes they don't mean them but if it becomes a habit of them talking behind your back, beware. I think an open communication and understanding is necessary it all forms of friendship and relationships that we have...

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